Sunday, February 3, 2013

Sunday Social

Sunday Social

Linking up with Neely and Ashley for Sunday Social.
If you feel like being social with other bloggers then go link up!

1. If you were stuck on an island, what are the two material items you would want to have?
My iPhone with a million backup batteries, and my book collection.

2. What are two TV shows that you watch over and over?


3. If your house were on fire what two things would you grab, besides family and pets?
I would grab my electronics, iPad, laptop, and iPhone. I would probably grab my handbag that has all of my current information and cards in it. 

4. What are your two most favorite items of clothing?
I don't get emotionally attached to clothes like a lot of girls. Never underestimate the power of a good jean. I love my J Crew Matchstick jeans. A second favorite would be one of my little black dresses!

5. What two movies that you saw in the past year would you recommend to us?
We go to a lot of movies! A lot!
Last year I loved


6. What are you two biggest guilty pleasures?
Reality TV, particularly The Bachelor series! && Young Adult fiction! 



Checking In On My Resolutions

I am doing this post so I can be held accountable for my resolutions that I made a month ago.
Every single year, I have a list a mile long with resolutions that "I am going to keep for an entire year." Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That is a load. I don't think I have ever gone a whole year where I kept all of my resolutions. This year, that changes! 
I really am going to stick with my resolutions the entire year, and you guys are going to hold me accountable. When I slack, I am going to have to let you guys know and that is quite embarrassing. 

First, we need to recap. I had 4 goals for 2013!!!!

1. Become better at saying "I am sorry, I was wrong."

2. Become healthier by cooking at home, working out at least 3x weekly, and drinking more water.

3. Read 50 books.

4. Cut back on spending. 

Okay, so lets see how I did in January. 

1. Ahem, I maybe need to work on this on saying sorry. Or maybe, I just wasn't wrong at all in January so I don't need to say sorry. Yeah, that's what it was. We can check back on this in March.

2. Looks like I got 2 out of three on #2. I have been doing great drinking water. I have cut out all soda and I am strictly drinking water (& coffee). We have been cooking at home a lot, thanks to the good old crockpot. I have NOT been exercising. Why do I do this?! I totally need to exercise. I started 30 day shred a few days ago. I am going to stick with it so when I check in with you guys in March I can feel proud about exercising. 

3. I am currently reading book 8! So I am doing great on this goal!

4. I have been doing great on spending. I actually still have gift cards from Christmas that I never spent because I didn't want to tempt myself to spend more by going shopping. I did buy foundation and new skin care supplies but I consider those necessities. 


Overall, I did okay in January. Nothing great. I know I can do so much better. The one I am most disappointed about it the amount of exercise that I am getting in on a daily basis. I always make excuses and enough with that. I have less than 9months until our wedding day and I obviously want to look amazing!

How did you do in January with your resolutions?

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Saturday IG Recap

Happy Saturday!
I hope you guys are either spending the day on the beach, or curled up on the couch catching up on your DVR with some Starbucks.
I really hope you aren't working today like me. 

I am going to link up with Sara from Pearls and Curls.
Every Saturday she has an Instagram recap linkup. First, you need to check out her blog because she's amazing! Then share your IG pictures from the past week!
I only have a handful of pictures this week. Sometimes the week gets busy and you let your time get away from you. Here is what I captured...

Last week we went to a new spot for date night. Had some delicious cocktails. Gavin snapped this picture of me, I think he had too many cocktails prior. ;)

Gavin's mom made us a delicious Irish Breakfast. The only thing missing is blood pudding. Which I avoid as much as I can! 

We finally block booked rooms for our wedding night! 

The weather has been chilly around here lately, so I got the chance to wear tights and boots this week. Over the moon!!!

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Book Reviews!

It's the end of January and I read 7 books this month.
I am so proud of that number! My goal for the year is 50 books, so I am right on track, or actually a little ahead of schedule but who is keeping count? Well, Me!

I wanted to do this post because I read some REALLY good books this month, and I had to share with you guys in case you were looking for a good read. 
There were four books in particular that stood out to me. I'll share the Goodreads excerpt then my opinion!

From Goodreads: 
Abby Abernathy is a good girl. She doesn’t drink or swear, and she has the appropriate number of cardigans in her wardrobe. Abby believes she has enough distance from the darkness of her past, but when she arrives at college with her best friend, her path to a new beginning is quickly challenged by Eastern University’s Walking One-Night Stand.

Travis Maddox, lean, cut, and covered in tattoos, is exactly what Abby wants—and needs—to avoid. He spends his nights winning money in a floating fight ring, and his days as the ultimate college campus charmer. Intrigued by Abby’s resistance to his appeal, Travis tricks her into his daily life with a simple bet. If he loses, he must remain abstinent for a month. If Abby loses, she must live in Travis’s apartment for the same amount of time. Either way, Travis has no idea that he has met his match

***I cannot even begin to tell you how much I loved this book and how it left me wanting, no needing, more! I have heard a lot of people compare it to 50 shades, and there are some intense sexual moments but it is nothing like 50. I actually love the relationship between Abby and Travis. It's not a healthy relationship by any means, but it has that factor of bettering and improving who you are, not only for yourself but for the one you love. I read this in one day and cannot wait until the next book comes out in April! 

From Goodreads:
In this literary tour de force, novelist Arthur Golden enters a remote and shimmeringly exotic world. For the protagonist of this peerlessly observant first novel is Sayuri, one of Japan's most celebrated geisha, a woman who is both performer and courtesan, slave and goddess.

We follow Sayuri from her childhood in an impoverished fishing village, where in 1929, she is sold to a representative of a geisha house, who is drawn by the child's unusual blue-grey eyes. From there she is taken to Gion, the pleasure district of Kyoto. She is nine years old. In the years that follow, as she works to pay back the price of her purchase, Sayuri will be schooled in music and dance, learn to apply the geisha's elaborate makeup, wear elaborate kimono, and care for a coiffure so fragile that it requires a special pillow. She will also acquire a magnanimous tutor and a venomous rival. Surviving the intrigues of her trade and the upheavals of war, the resourceful Sayuri is a romantic heroine on the order of Jane Eyre and Scarlett O'Hara. And Memoirs of a Geisha is a triumphant work - suspenseful, and utterly persuasive

***So begins my obsession with this Japanese culture. I swear, for over 3 hours after I finished this book I was googling everything I could to learn more about Geishas. Never before have I had an urge to go to Japan but now it is officially on my bucket list. I was actually surprised to see all the of controversy that went on after this book was published between the author and the source. I loved the way this book reads, it truly reads like a memoir and you completely forget that it's fiction. It's enchanting and magical, then heartbreaking. It's a great love story that doesn't finish until the last pages. I was 20 years late reading this book, and I wish I could read it for the first time again.

From Goodreads:
Sometimes discovering the truth can leave you more hopeless than believing the lies…

That’s what seventeen-year-old Sky realizes after she meets Dean Holder. A guy with a reputation that rivals her own and an uncanny ability to invoke feelings in her she’s never had before. He terrifies her and captivates her all in the span of just one encounter, and something about the way he makes her feel sparks buried memories from a past that she wishes could just stay buried.

Sky struggles to keep him at a distance knowing he’s nothing but trouble, but Holder insists on learning everything about her. After finally caving to his unwavering pursuit, Sky soon finds that Holder isn’t at all who he’s been claiming to be. When the secrets he’s been keeping are finally revealed, every single facet of Sky’s life will change forever

***This book starts like any other YA fiction love story. Here are two teenagers who are in love at first sight, then fight it, then develop a relationship of some sort. It differs from other YA fiction because this book takes you down deep and really dark turns. I don't want to give anything away because you don't see it coming until it hits you. This too has some heartbreaking moments, and touches very difficult subjects but she does it very tactfully. I am a huge fan of Colleen Hoover after Slammed and Point of Retreat. She did not disappoint with this book. 

From Goodreads:
In 1937, Shanghai is the Paris of Asia, a city of great wealth and glamour, the home of millionaires and beggars, gangsters and gamblers, patriots and revolutionaries, artists and warlords. Thanks to the financial security and material comforts provided by their father’s prosperous rickshaw business, twenty-one-year-old Pearl Chin and her younger sister, May, are having the time of their lives. Though both sisters wave off authority and tradition, they couldn’t be more different: Pearl is a Dragon sign, strong and stubborn, while May is a true Sheep, adorable and placid. Both are beautiful, modern, and carefree . . . until the day their father tells them that he has gambled away their wealth and that in order to repay his debts he must sell the girls as wives to suitors who have traveled from California to find Chinese brides.
As Japanese bombs fall on their beloved city, Pearl and May set out on the journey of a lifetime, one that will take them through the Chinese countryside, in and out of the clutch of brutal soldiers, and across the Pacific to the shores of America. In Los Angeles they begin a fresh chapter, trying to find love with the strangers they have married, brushing against the seduction of Hollywood, and striving to embrace American life even as they fight against discrimination, brave Communist witch hunts, and find themselves hemmed in by Chinatown’s old ways and rules.
At its heart, Shanghai Girls is a story of sisters: Pearl and May are inseparable best friends who share hopes, dreams, and a deep connection, but like sisters everywhere they also harbor petty jealousies and rivalries. They love each other, but each knows exactly where to drive the knife to hurt the other the most. Along the way they face terrible sacrifices, make impossible choices, and confront a devastating, life-changing secret, but through it all the two heroines of this astounding new novel hold fast to who they are–Shanghai girls

***This book wasn't exactly a page turner for me but I really enjoyed it. Once again I loved learning about a new culture. Lisa See does a really good job explaining all of the relationship dynamics between siblings, husband and wife, parental, and with arranged marriages. She also gives the reader a glimpse into the difficult and dark times the Chinese experienced during the war and even after. She wrote about their reluctant journeys to a better life and a better land. You come to sympathize with both sisters for very different reasons. I finished this book two nights ago and I was reading along, next thing I know I am crying, I am talking ugly crying. Very good book! 

Have you read any good books lately?

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Drugstore VS Department Store

If you follow me on Twitter (@BrunetteinBows) then you may have seen my excited tweets last night.
I have found a drugstore product that makes me want to jump in my car while wearing sweats and drive VERY fast to Target and get this product, in every.single.color. I am smitten with this product. I mean, I literally have not been this excited about a drugstore product since Revlon Lip Butters. Which, in that case, I did get one in every color. 
What product am I speaking of?

L'Oreal Colour Caresse Shine Stain

The title of this post is Drugstore vs Department Store so it is safe to assume that I will be comparing the above mentioned product with something similar that you can find at most department stores or Sephora.
I am comparing the Shine Stain with...

YSL Glossy Stain
This is my favorite Lipgloss, ever! To me it is basically a 3 in 1. Lip color, gloss, and stain. Don't let the word "stain" mislead you. It's not an all day lasting color, you will need to reapply it after a few hours. To be honest, I don't think you want an all day color, most of those 24hr stains dry the heck out of your lips by the end of the day, and that is IF they do last that long. So pretty much this is perfect. I apply one coat of this gloss, smack my lips a few times, then apply a second coat, smack my lips again, and call it a day. The only thing I don't love is the price-tag (we'll get to that in just a minute), so when I heard there was something similar in the drugstore, I just had to try it.

I am going to be comparing my favorite YSL Glossy Stain in the color #7 Corail Aquatiue.
The L'Oreal Caresse Shine Stain is in the color #187 Infinite Fuchsia

The Price
L'Oreal - $7-$11 Depending on where you pick it up. Always check the L'Oreal website for coupons!
YSL - $32 Universal price whether you get it from the Department store or Sephora.

The Packaging

L'Oreal - Sleek and slender packaging. Doesn't take up much room in your purse or makeup bag. I don't think there could be that much product in packaging though. 
YSL - Boxy packaging, but I love how chic it looks. Even though it's boxy it is still small enough to take with you on the go. I can vouch that there is plenty of product in these little babies. I have several of them and I haven't completely gone through any of them yet.

The Brush/Applicator
I held them up side by side so you could see the actual size of the brush is practically the same. I love the angled tip and they both have such soft bristles, which makes applying the color perfectly, easier. Of any glosses I own, these applicators are the best!
YSL is on the left
L'Oreal is on the right
It does seem that there is more product gathered on the L'Oreal applicator, but I am thinking that is probably because it's newer. 

The Swatch
YSL is on the top
L'Oreal is on the bottom.
Holy pigment! 
That is one swatch of the L'Oreal!
I already stated above how I wear the YSL (remember, I smack my lips a million times) I applied the L'Oreal the same way and found that it worked perfectly. The L'Oreal has more of a watery consistency than the YSL, but it doesn't transfer easily, which is important! The color does warm and darken a little once it is applied to your lips, so it is not a true to color from what you see in the packaging. This darkened to a hot pink berry color. Still absolutely lovely. It last several hours and did not dry my lips out. Actually, they felt quite moisturized while wearing the L'Oreal. 

The Verdict
Sad to say that I think I am kissing my YSL Glossy Stain goodbye! I found a new lipgloss that is more accessible, cheaper, and just as good. I think L'Oreal Caresse just became my new favorite lip gloss and you were here to witness it! I can't wait to get some new colors.

Have you tried any new make-up products recently that have you excited? 
Let me know in the comments below! 






Monday, January 28, 2013

SAG Awards 2013 Best & Not-So-Greatly Dressed

Happy Monday! 
Hope everyone is having a good day so far and you don't have a case of the Monday blues.

I don't think I could put it into words how much I love award season. I just love grabbing a notepad and a pen and taking down my notes as our favorite celebs strut their stuff down the red carpet. Last night was the SAG Awards, and I love the red carpet for this show. It's a little more casual than the Globes or the Oscars. I actually love the award ceremony(?) itself, because you never know who is going to win since all of the actors vote on the winners! 

As usual I have my Best dressed list prepared for you. I don't have a "worst" dressed list, because I don't think there were too many misses last night. Shockingly and much to my dismay. I love a few misses as much as the next! Instead of worst dressed you will get a few of my not so favorites.

All images posted below are from redcarpet-fashionawards.com

BEST DRESSED

 Kerry Washing in Rodarte. She is quickly becoming one of my favorites on the red carpet. I love her in this white gown. I love the structured and sparkly bodice and the lace on the back of the gown. It was a gorgeous combination!

Lets continue with the sparkles.I was glad to see that my "Best Dressed" from the Globes did not disappoint even though she went with a completely opposite look. She wore a gorgeous Silver Marchesa gown. Sleek, chic, and perfect!! 

All hail Jessica Chastain and her stylists. I am guessing her stylist was either fired, or severely reprimanded after the Globes. She 100% redeemed herself last night. She looked absolutely stunning in this red Alexander McQueen. I also love that she went with a side rather than that big volume mid-part that she wore on the last red carpert. Oh well, I won't dwell on things past, I really look forward to seeing her on the Oscars red carpert. I would love to see her wear Navy or Emerald Green. Love those colors on red heads. I totally think she deserves Best Actress too. Her role in Zero Dark Thirty, was astounding! 

Jennifer Lawrence, umph, can we just all take one second to look how tiny her waist is. I noticed this at  the Globes and thought it was just the dress. Obviously not the case. I thought she looked brilliant in this Navy colored Christian Dior Couture. Congrats on her win last night! I think she is such a great actress and it's about time it is recognized! 


Best Dressed, by a long shot in my mind, was Amanda Seyfried! She was absolute perfection in this navy Zac Posen. During her interview with Guiliana she mentioned how heavy the dress was, but I am glad she toughed it out and wore it anyways. Her dress, her accessories, her hair, and her makeup was 100% right on the mark! I love how this dress hugs her curves and then layers at the bottom. There could not be a more flattering silhouette for her. I bet a red lip would look good with this dress as well!

Okay so time for my 
NOT SO FAVORITES
I have to say January Jones looks pretty fierce and empowering. There was just something I wasn't crazy about with this Prabal Gurung gown. I do like that she made it the longer skirt. I actually like the collared/bib neckline. Dammit. I don't know, I just didn't like it. We are all entitled to our opinions I suppose.

Shoulders up, I think Naya Rivera looks gorgeous. I love her hair and her make-up. She looked stunning. I hate this Donna Karan Atelier gown. I really dislike the cleavage, I think its tacky. I really dislike the texture of the bodice. The skirt was too long in the front and wasn't very flattering. 


Julianna Moore in Chanel Couture. I feel like it is so wrong for me to say this leading lady is wrong in this Chanel dress but I *cringe* hated it. The shape is very flattering on her and you can tell she felt very confident in it, but I did not like the actual dress, at all! 

Claire Danes was my least favorite last night. I mean, lets start with this Givenchy dress. I love when she wears solids, and I love this black but I really dislike the slit and the design around the slit. The make-up, oh the make-up! What was she thinking. I don't even think my mother would wear that color lipstick anymore. It was just wrong on so many levels. I hate saying it, because Claire is always one of my favorites.

Sunday, January 27, 2013

Sunday Social

I am starting to really look forward to this linkup every week. I have found so many blogs through it that I would not have found otherwise. Plus, I love giving you guys the chance to get to know me.
Link up with Neely to join in on the fun!
Sunday Social

1. What is your ideal way to relax. 
This is an older picture but it pretty much answers this question. A cup of coffee, a good book, and sports. Relaxation at its best! 

2. Where is your favorite place to be. 
Home. Sweet and simple. Whether the home I share with Gavin or the home I grew up in. I love to be home with family. 

3. Who do you consider your biggest role model?
My mother. She's beautiful on the inside and outside. She's strong and she always puts her family first. I hope to be half the woman she is one day.

4. What does your life look like in 3 years?
I will be married and officially Mrs.D! Woot woot! I will have traveled a lot more. We will have a business up and running, and if you ask Gav, in 3 years we will have multiple businesses. Ack! I will have also furthered my nursing career. 

5. If you could go back and change one decision what would it be?
I would go to my long lost friend's wedding. I think if I would have gone we would still be friends today and it absolutely breaks my heart that we aren't. 

6. What is your biggest accomplishment in life thus far?
To be in my mid twenties I feel very satisfied and accomplished for where I am at now in life. The biggest would be that we have a successful restaurant and have more business opportunities because of it. 

 
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